E-Learning UPN Veteran Yogyakarta

Why Klutzy Women Are Attractive

Online Dating Tips: Do’s Don’ts and What to Expect

Relationship Status: Single

Things A Guy Should Never Do When He Lives With His Girlfriend

Five Lies Men Tell To Spare Your Feelings

Dates And The Fine Line Between Them

How Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life

Questions About Women That Men Need Answers To

Are Women Too Scared To Be The Dumpers?

Why Are Women So Catty?

The Anatomy Of The Creepy Rebound Guy

I'll admit to HATING being the dumper; however, since my marriage ended (I was the one who pulled the plug on that too) it's been on me every time. I recognize my own dating pattern: meet a man. Fall head over heel in infatuation with said man. Get more involved than I should despite clear "nothing serious boundaries". (I am always very very very crystal clear: no labels, no commitments, let's just enjoy the time we spend together, don't ask for more than I'm able to give, etc etc etc, but for some reason I get caught up in the initial puppy love anyway.) My feelings level out after three months or so, the man's don't. He falls in damn love. After month four (it's ALWAYS month four), I realize I can't stand him anymore, and eventually break things off, but not before dragging it out way longer than I should.

I've tried not being so... ardent at the beginning, but that's just my personality: I'm cheerful, happy, cuddly, I enjoy cooking for a man, and doing nice little things for him, and having movie night, and other just generally COUPLY stuff. I can't just turn all that off and start acting like a player or a user! But men misinterpret me (despite the very clear talks I have with them at the beginning) and then one day, without me even realizing it, I wake up and I'm someone's girlfriend and he's asking me how long it'll be before I'll consider moving in with him. Then I have to be all whoa whoa whoa. And guys don't react well to whoa whoa whoa. So, it's a work in progress.